How to Get Out of the “Friend” Zone
A lot of dudes get stuck in something known as… the “friend zone”.
This is not a particularly good place to be especially if you want to get into the sack with her.
The “Friend Zone” Is not Your Friend!
The friend zone should be your worst nightmare. It’s basically like quicksand. If you are not careful you can get sucked in too deep and soon you’ll be thinking “please help me she wants to go shopping for shoes and coffee, I think she thinks I’m gay…”
What I mean by that is that you should steer clear of it at all times.
If you do accidently happen to fall into it, you need to get out QUICK! Getting out is difficult. You can’t just struggle too fast otherwise she will realize what is happening and she’ll think that you are just some sleazy cheese-ball that lied to her just to get into her pants.
She Need to Know Who and What You Are
Now, she doesn’t mind if you want her, not at all. Unless she’s a nun or something like that and then you’re totally screwed in which case why are you even reading this? But, look seriously, she needs to know it up front. You can’t make her think you want her to join your book club and talk about lemon cake recipes and then hit her with the question “do you want to date?”
It will make her think that you are a lying cheating scum bag.
Let’s assume you happened to stupidly fall into the all elusive and somewhat totally evil “friend zone”.
Now you need to get the hell out as quickly and silently as you possibly can.
Silent but Deadly Accurate
Think like a Ninja warrior. You have to use deadly precision with the most upmost covert abilities that you have learned in your time watching action movies.
The idea is to have her suddenly realise that this new “friend” of hers is now attractive, funny and someone she may want to get horizontal with sometime in the near future with.
Let’s see what our good friend Joshua Pellicer has to say.
Joshua seems to think that one of the best tactics for getting out of the “friend zone” is to make her see you as more valuable than the nice guy she currently sees you as.
One way to do this taken directly out of Joshua’s secret ninja manual for pickup up women and becoming a dating super bot called, The Tao of Badass is to use a little known psychological trick where you use other women to influence her behaviour…
Woman on Woman… not What You Are Thinking
Joshua says that most women will be attracted to you if they see other women are attracted to you too. In other words they see you as a potential mate.
There is no better way to do this than to have a casual social get together where there are other women who are friends of yours attending.
You have to picture this scenario from the woman’s perspective, she is having a good time, you are there and so are some other females that are getting pretty friendly with you, they may be hugging you, laughing with you or just generally having a good time.
It’s going to have an effect on her and more often than not it’s going to flick a switch in her head making her realize that other women may potentially be attracted to you.
If you want to find out the rest of this secret technique along with the rest of Joshua’s badass tactics for dating and picking up then you need to check out his revolutionary and controversial dating guide.
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